Sonja Tobey, Coach

Helping leaders live into their greatest potential, so they can lead from their fullest self.

Meet Sonja, Your Coach

About Sonja Tobey

Sonja Tobey is a Leadership Coach helping leaders live into their greatest potential, so they can lead from their fullest self. A native of Oklahoma with a vision for the world, she brings more than 30 years of ministry leadership experience and four years of professional coaching to her work with clients and is the author of two books.

Sonja is passionate about helping leaders navigate conflict and serves as a trusted resource for new District Superintendents and their clergy, offering a steady, available presence. As a clergywoman who has walked through the trenches herself, she also comes alongside other clergywomen, helping them not just survive, but thrive.

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Testimonials

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Angela F.

Working with Sonja, my confidence grew as I navigated through my thoughts and applied them to my life goals. Sonja doesn’t just hear me, she listens. She helps me be my best self.

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Valerie S.

I have found Sonja to be an amazing coach who listens, nudges me towards my growing edges, and holds me accountable for my own best interests. She has also assisted me in tapping into the greater confidence within to do the work God has equipped and called me to do

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Tracy H.

Through her coaching, I’ve been able to communicate in a more productive manner with my leadership team. This is vital in order to continue to be a productive team able to lead and guide others.

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Hope D.

I was overwhelmed and skeptical; within weeks, Sonja’s whole-person approach left me grounded, hopeful, and equipped with tools I still use daily.