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The Whole Person

Coaching with Sonja devel the whole you – body, mind, and spirit – so you can live with intention.

Meet Sonja, Your Life Coach

About Sonja Tobey

Sonja Tobey is an ICF-credentialed coach (ACC) who helps leaders and individuals discover the confidence already within them and live with greater wholeness — in their work, their relationships, and themselves.

As an ordained United Methodist clergy, Sonja brings a unique blend of pastoral wisdom and professional coaching to her practice. She knows firsthand the demands of leading others while navigating your own inner critic, competing priorities, and the pressure to have it all together. That experience shapes the compassionate, honest, and grounded approach she brings to every coaching relationship.

Sonja believes that true confidence isn’t manufactured — it’s uncovered. And wholeness isn’t a destination; it’s a way of moving through life with integrity and intention. In coaching, Sonja and her clients work as thought partners — exploring challenges together, asking better questions, and uncovering insights that move you forward. You bring the expertise on your own life; Sonja brings the tools, perspective, and presence to help you see it more clearly.

Whether you’re stepping into a new leadership role, working through a life transition, or simply ready to quiet the self-limiting voices that have held you back, Sonja will walk alongside you.

Ready to lead with confidence and live in wholeness? Schedule a free introductory session today.

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Testimonials

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Angela F.

Working with Sonja, my confidence grew as I navigated through my thoughts and applied them to my life goals. Sonja doesn’t just hear me, she listens. She helps me be my best self.

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Valerie S.

I have found Sonja to be an amazing coach who listens, nudges me towards my growing edges, and holds me accountable for my own best interests. She has also assisted me in tapping into the greater confidence within to do the work God has equipped and called me to do

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Tracy H.

Through her coaching, I’ve been able to communicate in a more productive manner with my leadership team. This is vital in order to continue to be a productive team able to lead and guide others.

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Hope D.

I was overwhelmed and skeptical; within weeks, Sonja’s whole-person approach left me grounded, hopeful, and equipped with tools I still use daily.